© Dr. Neil Stanley 2013-2025
9 Commonly held Sleep myths
Myth 1: Eight hours a night is essential for quality sleep
There are no hard and fast rules about the amount of sleep each of us needs. We all have our own individual need.
The normal range is anywhere between 3-11 hours and, like height or shoe size, is genetically determined. Therefore
you need to get the right amount of sleep for you. Do not obsess about getting eight hours, find the amount of time
that is right for you. This is the amount of sleep that allows you to feel awake and vital the next day. If you are sleepy
during the day you are probably not getting enough sleep at night.
Myth 2: There is no such thing as too much sleep.
You can get too much sleep, each of us has our own individual sleep ‘need’ and like anything it is possible to have too
much of a good thing. Scientific evidence has shown that too much sleep is just as harmful as too little.
Myth 3: You can train your body to need less sleep and reduce your need to four or five hours a night.
Some people naturally need less sleep than others and this is genetically determined so whilst you can ‘get by’ on
less sleep then you need you cannot train yourself to ‘need’ less sleep. However, regularly getting even one hour less
sleep than you need is likely to impact on your health and negatively affect performance and mood. Longer term
partial sleep deprivation is associated with a greater risk of a number of diseases including heart disease, depression,
diabetes and obesity.
Myth 4: Sleeping in separate beds/bedrooms means the relationship is in trouble.
Many people sleep better with the warmth and security of another person next to them, however much of your sleep
disturbance is caused by your bed partner so others prefer to sleep alone. This is a perfectly natural thing to do and
might even improve your relationship because by sleeping better you will be happier, less tired and less resentful of
the other person.
Myth 5: If you miss out on sleep during the week you can catch up easily, simply by having a lie-in at the weekend
Catching up on missed sleep is important but a lie-in on the weekend can actually add to sleep disruption and
increase tiredness. Our bodies respond better to regular sleep patterns going to bed and getting up at a regular time.
The weekend lie-in is disruptive to this pattern and this is why getting up on Monday morning can be so difficult. To
catch-up on sleep it is better to go to bed a bit earlier and keep to your regular wake-up time.
Myth 6: An hour before midnight is worth two after
There is some wisdom behind this old-wives tale, the deep restorative part of sleep that we have is usually during the
first third of the night i.e. in the hours before and around midnight, sleep in the later part of the night is more easily
disturbed. So this saying is actually about the quality of sleep in the first part of the night not necessarily the timing.
Myth 7: Children will go to sleep when they are tired.
This is like thinking that children will stop eating ice cream when they are full. Children need much more sleep than
adults, it is crucial to their development; however, like us, it is important for children to have a routine in order for
them to get their required sleep.
Myth 8: People need less sleep as they get older.
Older people don’t need less sleep, but they do find it more difficult to get the sleep they need and therefore will find
their sleep less refreshing. This is because as people age, they spend less time in the deep, restful stages of sleep and
thus is lighter and consequently they are more easily awakened. Older people are also more likely to have insomnia or
other medical conditions that disrupt their sleep.
Myth 9: Snoring is just a bit annoying but nothing to worry about.
Many people, both men and women, snore during the night. Most occasional snoring is linked alcohol or being a bit
overweight. However regularly snoring will disturb the sleep of both the snorer and their bed partner and there is no
good thing about poor sleep. Loud, frequent snoring with regular pauses in breathing is called sleep apnoea, a serious
sleep disorder that should be treated.